This is a great picture. Changing Woman. That's me, I guess that is all of us.  We are changing all the time, most change is subtle. We hardly notice and hopefully it is for the better. Things do sneak up on you though, and we wonder "when the hell did that happen."

I just recently found a great movie- "Eat, Pray, Love". I remember when it came out I wanted to see it. But it got lost in the rest of life. Just recently the author of the book came into my meanderings. So I got the movie on X-Box and the book on my Nook. Though her journey was through divorce and a writing career, it so mirrored what could be any kind of lose. Grief can come in many ways. One thing that she did realize though was that she had never been truly alone on her own. It was this realization that I have come to as well. I may have mentioned in other blogs of the cave and all that. But I also have come to know that even with all my family and friends, at the end of the day in the evening and night it is just me. I must pay the insurance, taxes and utilities those mundane but necessary things. But also no one to share those nonsense things with that family and friends would even understand. But "she" says that before getting lost again in someone else she had to find "her".

So "Changing Woman" come let's talk. The changes can be subtle and exceedingly slow but here we go.